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"If your stories are not organically grown, but imposed on you by those who hate everything about you, then you’re virtually dead.”
Linh Dihn (As quoted by Chris Hedges in “The Artist as Prophet.”)
You Have Found the Every Farthing website
If you are a person who has found yourself falling in love with people who are not of legal age, you have almost certainly had to struggle to preserve an acceptable self image. Perhaps you have even contemplated suicide. It is not an easy matter to find yourself as a member of what may be the most despised and demonized group within our society.We do not recommend that you express these feelings in an explicitly sexual manner. Doing so could be quite harmful both to you and to your young friend. This is so even if the damage would be the result of society's draconian response to activities that may be in themselves harmless and mutually desired.
At the same time, it is important that you not buy into the demonized image of yourself that society presents. The fact is that somewhere between 25 and 30 percent of all adult males are attracted to juveniles with an intensity that is equal to or greater than what they feel for their peers. Most of these people, for obvious reasons, keep their feelings to themselves. You may not be as alone as you have been led to believe.
We cannot all be demons. You are your story. Therefore it is important that you read narratives that will enable you to tell your own story in a way that is benign. This is not all that easy when we live in a society that has for some time now been swallowed up in a moral panic about inter-generational love that is of almost psychotic dimensions.
On this web-site we will offer some links to materials that may be of interest to you. You will find no pornography or sexually explicit images connected to this website. It is meant for people who are interested in integrating their socially condemned feelings in a manner that is harmless and beneficial to themselves and others. Even so, some of the ideas that one might find here may be surprising or even shocking to those whose understanding of these matters has been shaped by the popular media.
Note: Most of the materials on this site are made available at no cost. Also free of charge, one can read excerpts from some books that deal with the theme of intergenerational love. Links to Amazon.com are provided where these books can be purchased in either conventional or digital format.
(The painting on this page is by Ferdinand Hodler.)